Future Business Leaders of America (FBLA) Business Etiquette Practice Test

If the host/hostess insists that you start eating, what should you do?

1. You must always wait for them

2. You can eat first if they insist, but otherwise, wait

3. You should decline and wait for them

4. You can start eating whenever you want

The correct answer is: You can eat first if they insist, but otherwise, wait

When a host or hostess insists that you start eating, it is customary and polite to honor their request. This acknowledgment shows respect for their hospitality and an understanding of social dining etiquette. Option B recognizes that while the tradition is to wait for the host to begin the meal, if they are pressing for you to start, it is acceptable to do so. This approach balances good manners with responsiveness to the host's wishes. The other responses do not adequately address the social dynamics at play. Waiting for the host at all times could make the atmosphere awkward if they have given you permission to start. Declining to eat when invited may come off as rude or as a rejection of their hospitality. Finally, simply eating whenever you want disregards the principles of dining etiquette, where observing the host’s cues is vital to a courteous dining experience.